Congrats Raine,
You have all the answers to your previous post!

Yes you shall just focus on other stuff. That, is not what you should be focusing on. If it's not yours, its not. Remember this? No point harping on it when you know it deep inside you, It's gone.

Obviously, you are NOT in any single nor tiny weeny little position.
So suck toes or thumbs if you want to get frustrated or mad with these. This is what I call, serve you right.

I believe you've cried enough, show your smile; those smiles that I adores dearly.